You're solving for geometric, not arithmetic.
First, we need to look for the common ratio.
x, x + y, x + 2y, x + 3y, x + 4y, ...
a_4 = x + 3y
a_16 = x + 15y
Subtract those 2 equations.
125-41 = x + 15y - (x + 3y)
84 = 12y
y = 7 (that's the common ratio)
a_4 = x + 3y
41 = x + 3(7)
x = 20
So our first term is 20, then we add 7 for the next term.
a_n = 20 + 7(n-1)
=^._.^=